How to know your the Side Guy.

Ok i know majority of guys today don't care if they are side dudes,as long as they are getting their turn with the girl,so am writing this for the loyal guys out there who still believe in love.As much as there are side chicks,girls keep the most side dudes,but they just call them friends or besties,a girl can introduce two of her guys to each other like (hey baby meet my love or sweetheart meet my besty),the two unsuspecting guys will greet each other without knowing.These days some girls don't give their all in a relationship,because they feel that if the guy messes up they already got like bunch of guys waiting to take over.Anyway lets go over the little tips so you can know if your being played,

• Firstly she won't lock her phone,but if you go through it,you will never see any messages from guys, only girls,even her social media handles you won't see messages,i mean if she ain't flirting with them she would comfortably leave them because no beautiful girl stays a day without getting at least one shout out from a guy.But whenever you mistakenly see a text from another guy she would still tell you is just a guy disturbing her against her will.
• Because she has so many guys around she would never go for a stroll with you,she would always bring up excuses not to go out with you,because she wouldn't want to be caught off guard.
• She's always demanding things,remember any girl that loves demanding money or material things will never be loyal to one guy.
• She keeps ignoring some calls whenever she's with you,not because she doesn't want you guys disturbed,but she doesn't want to say the wrong things or pass the wrong message.
• She takes too many pictures with guys and when you ask her she will just say they are just besties,or just work,or course mates.
• She will never upload your picture in any of her social media platform,i mean if she's proud of you,she would flaunt you online and anywhere,cos that's how love works.But even if you force her,she will just write besty of life or she would write this new "i heart him so much",why can't she say 'i love you'.
• Finally she cares little about you,i mean you've noticed that she can go a day without calling or even beeping you,even when you know you can't.She doesn't even respect you,she will nag you all the time cos she not afraid to loose you,she will not even introduce you to her friends because your not the one,shes just using you to pass time.

So there are still more ways to spot a cheating flirt,but if you notice any of this behaviors is best you have a talk with her,or better still just end the the relationship.These days,because of material things some girls don't care what they do to their bodies,they don't care who they cheat on,no loyalty.But i think guys should be blamed too,i mean some of this guys will know that the girl is dating,yet they will still pursue her,and entice her with money,and because most girls are easily fooled,they will fall,some guys may stop caring for the girl like they used to,that may push the girls into cheating.Please lets maintain our boundaries,if a girl is dating just let her be,and ladies please if your dating just stick with your guy,and if you don't want him anymore just let him know you want to break up,is more safer and better than cheating on him.Anyway that's what "Juliansaid" and i hope you believe it.