Little things that money can't buy.

Am not just writing this because is the yuletide but,i just want you to understand,that the most important thing a human being can have in life, is the love of family.
You see as long as your alive,there is a lot you can strive to achieve,and while you think those things can give you happiness,you should also realize that,those things can actually disappear in a spark.
I was spending time with my family today,something i haven't done in a long while,and i realized that,upon all the joy i thought i had,nothing compared to seeing my parents and my siblings,all together smiling,laughing,and reminiscing on the good old days.
What i want you to do this Christmas,and am not actually asking,am pleading is,no matter what you think your parents did to you,and no matter how far you think you are from them,go and see them,and if your married go with your family.I know most people have unfinished business with their parents,some hold grudges,maybe because of what happened in the past,and you left in anger,and you never went back,i want you to take this holidays,to go back and seek reconciliation,because you may not realize this,but our parents won't be there forever,and the only time we have to spend with them is now,cos if you let them die sad,one day you will regret why you spent most of your life resenting them.
So no matter what,go back home,GARTH BROOKS said in one of his  songs "Just tell that someone that you love,just what you're thinking of,if tomorrow never comes" .So please do this today,cos you never know,tomorrow might be too late.
From all of us here,at "Juliansaid",i wanna say Merry Christmas,and a Happy New Year in Advance.

Did you know?

Now before you go ahead,i must warn you,what your about to read,may go against every thing you've ever known.
First of all lets picture this scenario;have you ever been in a relationship with someone,and all of a sudden,it seems like the god of good luck just fell on you?,and also have you ever started dating someone,and suddenly things,starts to get really rocky for you?,well today i want to answer all that for you.
You see every human being is created with his or her own different energy,it can be a good energy or a bad one.In real life,you meet lots of people,these people make a huge impact in your life,some of these people are friends,some of them are,acquaintances,and even lovers.
And in the case of love,we all know that we do not plan who we meet,and when to meet them,but the only thing that matters is Love,and when you love someone nothing can change your mind.These days before people fall in love,they check for a whole lot of things like;age,ethnicity,etc,some go as far as checking for gene compatibility,but we always forget spirituality,is just like science,if you have a bad energy,and you start dating,or you marry a person with bad energy,obviously your relationship will be having problems,either from quarrels,or financial instability,but if you have a bad energy and your dating someone with good energy,your luck will change for the better.
Remember true love conquers all,so no matter the kind of relationship your having,good or bad,if you truly love your partner,you gonna make it out.But the main idea for this post is to open your eye to the possibility,that maybe the reason your relationship took a different turn,might be because of the person your dating.So if your dating someone,and things are are going great,never let them go,and no matter what happens,always endeavor to make it right,but if your dating someone and even though you love each other yet things starts to get really bad,well you know what to do,always follow your heart.
And yes!,before i forget,don't ever think that if you start dating a rich guy or a rich woman,that your luck will change,no matter the kind of money they have,if you are not meant for each other,if your not compatible,that relationship or marriage will crumble sooner than later.
Anyway i hope what "juliansaid" today made sense,and i hope you believe it.

The just a friend,or bestie thingy,what you didn't know.

Ok i know most of you are well acquainted,with the "just a friend,or friend zone ish",i know is very annoying,i for one think is a sham,well as good as it must be for the "zoner",there is actually a down side to the whole shebang.
You see,human beings are mostly created differently,but 90% of humans have the same instincts,so is like asking a cat to coexist with a fish,it doesn't work,your just fighting the law of nature,and when mother nature bounces back,is always messy.
A girl cannot have a male best friend,that ish is not right,and likewise a guy cannot have a female best friend,that's like a cat and a fish situation,cause at the end,the cat will always eat the fish.
For men,having a female bestie or best friend,can actually work for a short period of time,because men got an over charged libido,so is hard for them to be just friends with a lady for a long time,without sexual relations.
And women on the other hand are pro's in friend zoning a man,but one thing about women is,they actually think that nothing sexual can happen between them and their so called bestie,cause they see him as a brother,and also a really good friend,but one day,after two or maybe four break ups,that bestie will start to look like a really good catch.
There are two things that can go wrong in this bestie relationship ish;

•  Heartbreak;you see for girls,heartbreak can really be an emotionally depressing thing,a trying time,and at this time the only shoulder a girl can cry on is that of the bestie,and if this happens repeatedly,one day,out sorrow,sex will happen,and you can't do anything to stop it,and neither will your bestie,because behind every male bestie,is a guy who is dreaming to maybe one day have sex with you.
• Expensive plays;sometimes you can play or,indulge in an expensive fun with your bestie,now if you ain't careful,if you lose control,casual sex can occur.

You see,sex can't happen between two best friends,because the moment that happens,they are no longer best friends,everything changes,so the real problem with the whole shebang is,after sex happens,maybe out of heartbreak,or even infatuation,there might be resentment from either one or both parties,or they will try to make it something more,because they just don't want it to be just a casual something,but the bottom line is,it will collapse,it will be a disastrous crash,the heartbreak will be huge,either for the girl or the guy,or sometimes even both parties,now who will you cry to?,who will console you?,you will end up depressed,cut out from the world,and you will swear never to trust a human being again.
That is why you don't play with the law of nature,don't make the opposite sex your best friend,stick to the normal status-quo,even if you don't see it as a problem,the person your actually dating might hate it,they may not tell you,it may be killing them inside,but i will tell you today to stop it,cause it has 10% rate of success.I have seen people die because of this,i have seen people go crazy because of the trauma.
You may think what am saying is bullshit,you may say is never gonna happen,but trust me the time is ticking,and when the problem starts happening,when that day finally comes,you will remember this post,and you will remember i told you so.
Anyway that's what "Juliansaid",and i hope it sunk in.

For real SM and SD CONTACT,and if your looking for real love,or a spouse,contact us today for a direct match.

Hello there,don't be shy,your at the right place,but really for you to stoop this low to come here for a match,it means your really desperate,it also means you ain't man enough to actually talk to a lady directly,well don't be ashamed,i know a lot of people that started out like you,shy to talk to a woman,but in time we cured them of that problem.
but what i want you to understand is,that the same way your shy,the ladies are shy too,so they just need you to man up,and approach them,because like a tiger to it's prey,girls or ladies can smell fear on a guy a mile away,that's why when you come,they can do anything to scare you,but if you stand your ground,and have that self confident,you can actually get the girl.
Well i don't wanna bore you with too much talk,so am just gonna leave this contacts here;so call this number,it doesn't matter if your a man or a woman,we are here to help you,we can actually help you to get your self confidence back,so that you can go out there and do the hustle yourself.
Email:Juliansaid007@gmail.com,and then call the number:08077674008.
And please most importantly,do not misuse this opportunity,cause this involves real people with real feelings.Thank you.

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If your crying that your girl left you,and your having suicidal tendencies,then you must read this.

Wait,hol up,this is so unbelievable,so your actually crying cos she dumped you?,wow am so ashamed of you right now,just stop drooling over yourself,is embarrassing,what i want you to do now is simple.
First go to a quiet place,a place where you will be alone,just make sure no one is seeing you,so that you won't be shy,now once you've done that,just keep your phone or laptop on the floor,kneel down and,put your right hand on your head let me pray for you,"Now any b**ch n***a spirit turning you into a retarded person,i destroy it,in Jesus name,Amen",now once you've prayed that prayer with me,i want you to sit down and listen very good.
85% of women around the world,are actually very much confused,that's why 60% of problems that occur in relationships,are actually caused by women,that's why the need you to keep telling them sweet things all the time,cause any day you stop,another guy can start telling them that same thing,and they will actually fall for them.
What am trying to tell you is,"if a girl is not meant for you,she will always leave you,it doesn't matter if your rich or poor,remember what happened early this year to ICE PRINCE ZAMANI,the Nigerian musician,it doesn't matter how much love you give to a woman,is never enough,most women,wants to make several mistakes before they learn,but only the wise ones make few mistakes,because they actually learn from the mistakes of others.
So i want you to snap out of it,for you to be this emotional,it means your a nice guy,all you need to do is stand up from that slumber,go out and make new friends,there's a whole lot of women out there waiting and praying to be loved,one day when your ex has made a whole lot of mistakes,she will realize,what a great mistake she made by leaving you.
I know you might say is not easy to move on but,What i want you to tell yourself everyday when you wake up is,"I AM  CHAMPION",this means your a winner,and is her loss for leaving you.
So get up and win champ!!!,cause winners don't roll with losers,"Juliansaid"so,and i hope it sunk in.

Tragedy:How this bride died on her wedding day.

It was a beautiful Saturday morning,the sky was blue and the grass was still green,and the weather was.....,well it was a cool day,and in her mind,nothing could spoil this day.But little did she know,that something really dangerous was gonna happen to her.It was a rich wedding,make up artists arrived,friends are gathering,then something happened that really shocked her,she saw her groom come out.................OK let me stop you right there,so you just came here to hear a sad story right?,why can't you be happy for someone?,how can a fine girl like this die?,and you just came to see,most of us just surf the internet just see a sad story,sometimes when you see a good story on a page or blog,you can just enter to read it,you might just learn a thing or two,some of us just want to see nude pictures or porn,that's why when you see a good story you just pass,sometimes just be positive minded.
Well is Christmas again,and i bet you all are excited,well i don't know about you,but am so happy,not only we get to see our loved ones,but we get to share love and happiness,and kisses under the mistletoe,i mostly enjoy the less work.
Anyway i just wanted to get your attention,to remind you that sometimes when you see a good news,or an important write-up,just click on it and read,it doesn't have to be porn or bad news.
And for this beautiful lady,i can't really remember her name but,i bet she had a wonderful wedding,which had happy ending.Well stay safe,and remember tiz a season to be jolly and happy,don't ever let anything or anybody bring you down.

Women's Odeal

Am writing this today with tears in my eyes,when i think about what our women face, in the hands of people who claim they love them,the hardships they go through.
Because of hard conditions,some women have been deceived into some bad situations,that ends up being detrimental to their lives.
Today i want to talk about women trafficking, if you don't know what this means,is simply women who are tricked,coerced,or most times forced into foreign countries,with the promise of a legit work,but instead they are forced into prostitution.
This women,in getting to these foreign lands,have their passports seized by the people who brought them,and until they feel satisfied that these women have paid their dues,they won't give their papers back to them,and when you are in a foreign land without your papers,your just worthless,but actually this in not even the problem,my issue is,what these women go through,before they even pay up their,so called "Madam's and Pimps". Most of these women get introduced,to some harmful drugs,or ecstasies,which they get totally addicted to,most of these unfortunate women,die of drug overdose,hunger,and even malaria,and worst of all when these women contract any kind of STD,they are tossed away,and in most cases they die of HIV & AIDS.
Upon all the adverts,and agencies put in place to cub this atrocity,many women still fall prey to this,but my question is,who is to blame?,the victim or the person that tricked them,to me i think is a 60-40% stuff,i think women this days are ruled by their insatiability,someone comes and makes a promise to take you to overseas,without you spending a dime,don't you know is too good to be true,can't you sense the scam in that?,most times they come as,modelling Agency,they tell you how beautiful you are,and how you will make tons of money overseas,and you agree without thinking twice.But why can't you work hard and make a living?,everyone is blessed with a talent,why don't you find yours and use it,stop going into things you don't know,if you really work hard and put your mind into it,you can actually send yourself abroad,because when this people come,they feed on your desperation,naivety and stupidity,cos they can't deceive a decent woman.
The only way to cob this,is to create awareness,and get enlightened,that's the only way we can stop these people from preying on us.
So am urging every woman to learn from the mistakes of others,when they come with their fake Agencies and fake promises,just say "NO",then be careful,about the places you go to,either for parties or any occasion,cos most times,women are kidnapped and sold out of the country,and also please i implore all citizens, to report any place you see or hear about women,being molested,trafficked or sexually abused.
Lets join hands together to fight this inhumane abuse of women,because together we can work miracles,"Juliansaid"so and i hope you believe it.

                                       This message is supported by UN WOMEN.

Cupid's Lamentations.

Love is dying,and it's our fault,we are all murderers.

Back in the old days,love was respected,feared and cherished.In the bible,"for God so loved the world,that he gave his only begotten son,to die for us,you can even see it in the story of Samson.first of all,we need to understand, the importance of love,

• Love can make the strongest of men weak,and it can make the hardest of hearts melt,

• Love can bring peace,both personally and also in the world,

• And we must understand that love is a beautiful thing.

St Augustine said that "love is the beauty of the soul,and Ghandi said that "love is life",this means that,"love is a sacred communion",it doesn't,care about the color of your skin or the type of job you do,or if your rich or poor,love doesn't discriminate, it visits everyone at the right time. But today we have killed love,with our lies,and deceit,with our infatuations,these days,before we dabble into a relationship, we first consider what we can gain,but what about love?,is either sexual benefit or financial,but again,"what about love?.

Young bloods of today are killing love,we now choose who to love,girls being disloyal,sleeping around for finance,guys having multiple lovers,sex craved.

When are we gonna stop and realize, that we are not even living,when are we gonna stop the lust.

When you go to bed today,ask yourself, why your in that relationship, is it because your afraid of being alone,or for financial or physical security,or just for the sexual pleasure,ask yourself if your in it for just fun,and at the same time,just for a minute, consider love. Khalil Gibran said that "Life without love is like a Tree without blossoms or fruits. Remember,If we live only for the things we want,one day,we are going to loose site of the things we need. "Juliansaid"so,and I hope it makes common sense.