The just a friend,or bestie thingy,what you didn't know.

Ok i know most of you are well acquainted,with the "just a friend,or friend zone ish",i know is very annoying,i for one think is a sham,well as good as it must be for the "zoner",there is actually a down side to the whole shebang.
You see,human beings are mostly created differently,but 90% of humans have the same instincts,so is like asking a cat to coexist with a fish,it doesn't work,your just fighting the law of nature,and when mother nature bounces back,is always messy.
A girl cannot have a male best friend,that ish is not right,and likewise a guy cannot have a female best friend,that's like a cat and a fish situation,cause at the end,the cat will always eat the fish.
For men,having a female bestie or best friend,can actually work for a short period of time,because men got an over charged libido,so is hard for them to be just friends with a lady for a long time,without sexual relations.
And women on the other hand are pro's in friend zoning a man,but one thing about women is,they actually think that nothing sexual can happen between them and their so called bestie,cause they see him as a brother,and also a really good friend,but one day,after two or maybe four break ups,that bestie will start to look like a really good catch.
There are two things that can go wrong in this bestie relationship ish;

•  Heartbreak;you see for girls,heartbreak can really be an emotionally depressing thing,a trying time,and at this time the only shoulder a girl can cry on is that of the bestie,and if this happens repeatedly,one day,out sorrow,sex will happen,and you can't do anything to stop it,and neither will your bestie,because behind every male bestie,is a guy who is dreaming to maybe one day have sex with you.
• Expensive plays;sometimes you can play or,indulge in an expensive fun with your bestie,now if you ain't careful,if you lose control,casual sex can occur.

You see,sex can't happen between two best friends,because the moment that happens,they are no longer best friends,everything changes,so the real problem with the whole shebang is,after sex happens,maybe out of heartbreak,or even infatuation,there might be resentment from either one or both parties,or they will try to make it something more,because they just don't want it to be just a casual something,but the bottom line is,it will collapse,it will be a disastrous crash,the heartbreak will be huge,either for the girl or the guy,or sometimes even both parties,now who will you cry to?,who will console you?,you will end up depressed,cut out from the world,and you will swear never to trust a human being again.
That is why you don't play with the law of nature,don't make the opposite sex your best friend,stick to the normal status-quo,even if you don't see it as a problem,the person your actually dating might hate it,they may not tell you,it may be killing them inside,but i will tell you today to stop it,cause it has 10% rate of success.I have seen people die because of this,i have seen people go crazy because of the trauma.
You may think what am saying is bullshit,you may say is never gonna happen,but trust me the time is ticking,and when the problem starts happening,when that day finally comes,you will remember this post,and you will remember i told you so.
Anyway that's what "Juliansaid",and i hope it sunk in.