More About Life.

 Everyday a whole lot of us,worry about a whole lot of things,like,food,shelter,money,peace of mind,and we find ourselves being lost,with no direction,or purpose.
This life is hard,really hard,even the rich will still tell you the same,they say life is a race,a damn rat race,but where are we racing to?,why are we in a hurry?,these days good,guys end up in a bad place,with no love,no money,no joy,heartbroken each time they try to love again.Insatiable,most girls are really insatiable,one man ain't enough,one thing ain't enough,well i guess they are through daughters of eve.
Well am sorry if i sound a bit harsh and upfront but,i have a patient here,who is planning on committing,suicide.
Anyway,take ma word for it,don't take life too serious,stop racing in this life,if love fails,try again,never give up on the love you already have,unless is hurting you,we can only wish for the best,and let the universe decide.anyway that's what Juliansaid"in a bit.

More About Life.

 Everyday a whole lot of us,worry about a whole lot of things,like,food,shelter,money,peace of mind,and we find ourselves being lost,with no direction,or purpose.
This life is hard,really hard,even the rich will still tell you the same,they say life is a race,a damn rat race,but where are we racing to?,why are we in a hurry?,these days good,guys end up in a bad place,with no love,no money,no joy,heartbroken each time they try to love again.Insatiable,most girls are really insatiable,one man ain't enough,one thing ain't enough,well i guess they are through daughters of eve.
Well am sorry if i sound a bit harsh and upfront but,i have a patient here,who is planning on committing,suicide.
Anyway,take ma word for it,don't take life too serious,stop racing in this life,if love fails,try again,never give up on the love you already have,unless is hurting you,we can only wish for the best,and let the universe decide.anyway that's what Juliansaid"in a bit.

No Tomorrow.

Have something ever happened to you and you wished you had done something different?,the problem we are having today is that,we are too afraid of death,and what people will say about us,that we forget to live,we forget to do what makes us happy,a wise man once said,that unless we take a risk,we won't actually know our limits.
Is high time we care less about what people say,or about what we gonna loose,if you wanna love,love to the fullest,if you wanna party,do it to the fullest,if you wanna hate,do it to the fullest,and if you wanna work,don't hold yourself back,cos at the end,no one came into this life with you,even twin babies,comes out one after the other.
We don't know when our life,will come to an end,no matter how careful you are,something will one day kill a man,so everyday make peace with God and your fellow man,there may be heaven or hell,but what we know is,good people ends up in a happy place,while bad  people,well ends up in a worst place.
So don't hold back,don't waste your time chasing,what you may not have,life is easy,is only humans that make it complicated,so always let love lead,and your in for a happy life,because you never know,there may be "NO TOMORROW,and that's what "Juliansaid" today.

What every woman needs.

I know most of us men,think what a woman want is just a rich man,to take care of her every need,even some girls have grown up with such believes,well,while this might be partially true,i have made some researches,and i have deduced that what a woman needs,is just beyond money.

•   Firstly some women confuse themselves,thinking what they want is money,while really deep down,what they really need is,a man that can provide security and stability,and a real man can provide this,with or without money.
• Secondly,women need a man who can give them attention,even when they are misbehaving,someone who can make them number.1 no matter what.
• Sometimes they just need you to be a man,and scold them when they are doing wrong,cos if you pamper them too much they tend to feel you ain't man enough.
• women need appreciation no matter how small,they want you to praise them no matter what.
• Women just want a man that will be there for them,a caring person,a man who can say sorry even though he didn't do anything wrong.

I know sometimes is very hard to find a good woman,but if you can find a woman who doesn't care about,who you are,what you are,how you look,or what you can give her,just treat her right,cos a woman like that is a home builder.
Anyway that's all i got to say for now,stay safe,stay happy.''Juliansaid''so

Is Just Love.

Have you ever sat down one time to wonder,how you actually met your spouse,how you felt that day,maybe it was a rainy day,maybe you where in a train station,or at a wedding ceremony,have you ever thought how your life would have been,if you didn't go to the mall that day,would you have ever been this happy?,would you have ever met this wonderful person who changed your life?.
We don't choose who we fall in love with,or where we find love,but we know we are nothing without that one person who makes us smile.
Love is beautiful,it gives us extreme happiness;

Love is that feeling you have,that moment when you both know you wanna run away together,

that moment you find out that nothing works better if she's not around.Happiness is free,everyone deserves a bit of joy and gladness,everyone deserves to feel alive,you have the right to taste this heavenly enjoyment.

When you find that person that makes your your heart skip,you know you can do anything to make her smile,like;
hangout with him all day long,

thinking about her all day,or maybe acting all crazy when your together;

But then again,love has it's flaws,and no matter how happy you are,you know deep down it won't be all glamorous and dandy,because one day there will be arguments;

and some days you just can't stand each other;

But then you know is for better or worse,you both know that no matter how bad the situation is,even if the other person is dieing,you will always be there to support each other;

So don't let bad times destroy your lives,ride it out like a bad storm,let go of the past,because at the end,she's the only best friend you can ever have,and he's the best thing that has ever happened to you;

and deep down you know you wanna grow old together,spend forever with the only joy you've ever had;.

We don't know what life will bring our way,we don't know who the universe will send our way or when,but one thing is for sure,when you find your soul mate,you will just know, because there's this fire they will light up in you that will kick start your life,in a way you never knew is possible,in a way that no one has ever done before,it will just click.
So even if your single now,keep believing,even if your in a bad relationship,keep hoping,because true love is not searched,it's not seduced,it just finds you,so the question is,"how do you want it to find you?",in a good state or in a bad one".Anyway stay happy,and i pray you don't miss cupid or ignore him when he comes.

That's what "Juliansaid" today,and i hope you gonna believe it.

Why your relationships keep failing.

"Why is my relationships always failing?",i know most of us always ask this question every time we break up,and because of this singular issue,you've dated different kinds of people,trying to fix the problem,yet you keep hitting a wall,i know some of you ladies have been promised marriage by different men,yet when is almost time for the alter,he dumps you.You've acted hard to get,you've forced him to introduce you to his family,yet no hope,well,i would like you to look at this possible causes of relationship problems:

1. Secrets: you can't have a successful relationship if your always keeping secrets,not a lot of people love surprises,sometimes your partner just wants you to be free with them and open up,that's how they can trust to spend their entire life with you.
2. Lies: this is the main problem most of us have,we find it hard to be honest,some of us are even too bad at lying,that even when we are caught we continue to lie,how do you expect your partner to still stick with you,when he or she knows that,you just can't be honest.
3. Bragging: some people sometimes brag and claim what they are not,when they are about to ask out a new person,so at the long run,she/he may find out and that will be the end of it.
4. flirt: most of us really do not know our boundaries,when your in a relationship,you are expected to reduce the way you relate with the opposite sex,you can't be dating yet your still hanging out with the opposite sex the same way you did when you were single,learn to stick with your partner. 
5. Carelessness: some people starts to care less if they have gotten the girl or the guy,which might affect their partner,this can also cause an end.
6. Bad character: if you have a bad character,it will be hard for you to hide it for long,and that can actually cause a problem.
7. Respect: everyone deserves a little respect in a relationship,that might be why people keep leaving you,because you lack respect.

Now when you look at yourself,and notice that you have this problems,then am afraid is your fault that your relationships are failing,and i would suggest a change in character,stop lying,stop flirting,stop the secrets and try to care more.A relationship is like a plant,you have to nurture it,water it,care for it,because any day you loose your guard,is either outsiders trample on it,or it weeders and dies.But in some cases it might not be your fault,some girls are so much in love with material things these days,that they can leave any guy if the sense your broke,some guys on the other hand can leave a girl,if they realize that she won't give them sex.So if you find yourself in this situation,know that it isn't your fault,your just meeting the wrong people.
And then try to keep a good hygiene,dress well and classy,you might be getting dumped because you smell bad,or you don't go with the trend.Anyway if you would keep to these rules,am pretty sure your relationship, will be lasting longer than you ever imagined,that's what "Juliansaid",and i hope you gonna believe it.

Truth about Purgatory.

Today i want to direct your mind to an important matter,and i wish you would keep an open mind,am not here to make you change your believes,only to titivate your mind,i know many Christians have heard of this mysterious place called purgatory,in fact i believe,it was the roman catholic that conceived this doctrine,and according to them,it's believed that,purgatory is a place between heaven and hell,where some Christians undergo spiritual purification with fire,before they are allowed into heaven,and many Christians who are not Catholics now believe in it.

But the question is "is purgatory real?,or is it just a story told to the dying,to give them a peaceful exit.

When you read the bible to the end,you will find out that,there was no place in the holy book that purgatory was mentioned,i mean if it was really a place,someone would have talked about it in the bible,and the two recorded places after death in the bible,is Heaven and Hell.

But then i keep wondering,why would people believe in something that is not real?,it is said in the bible,that when we die,judgment follows,so this rightly means that,when you die,either you go to heaven or hell,so i believe some Christians should get their head straight,don't sin with the hope of,ending up in a place,where you will be purified,is either you go to heaven or hell,no second chances after death.

Sometimes being a christian does not mean you will be blind to an obvious reality,there is no place like purgatory,it is not an intermediate place after death,and it is not real,but as free humans,we deserve the right to believe in anything or any faith we choose.Everyday we live,is an opportunity from heaven to change our sinful ways,don't waste your time on this earth,believing in false doctrines or believes,no matter the religion,in this life we only have to believe in these:

1. Love God.
2. Love yourself
3. And love your fellow human being.

Anyway that's what "Juliansaid",and i hope you gonna believe it.

Gossip.

Today i want to talk about a matter that really affects everyone,and that's gossip.Yesterday i had a session with a couple,and the problem was that the wife heard something rather unspeakable about the husband and she didn't confirm from the him to really ascertain if the information she got was legit,instead she swung into action,they've almost called it quits,but i had to try and savage the situation.
But the question i keep asking is,why do people engage in gossip?,everyday rumor always had it,i mean why has it become a thing?,everybody talking about somebody,nobody minds there business anymore,some big blogs and websites now make a living with gossip,whether is the truth or not,nobody wants to know,they don't care who it hurts.I have seen relationships fail because of gossip,i have seen patients depressed because of it,people have died because of it,and this habit is mostly exhibited by women,even though this days some men are not left out,but i believe this dreadful habit should be curtailed,and this can be achieved if the people involved in this act,will actually engage themselves in meaningful endeavors,because laziness,nosiness, joblessness,have be denoted as the main causes.So please it won't cost you anything to really mind your business,involve yourself in exercise,or maybe try reading books,it will take your mind off boredom,and remove you from the temptation of gossiping,and it makes you less human if you talk behind someones back.So please get your head straight,get a job,and get a life.Anyway that's what "Juliansaid" and i hope you gonna believe it.